Week 6: Beth's Winter Holiday

Sunday, Dec. 26 -- Beth woke up excited. "Is it that Christmas?" she asked when she came downstairs. No, that was yesterday. "Oops!" she said, then "That's right, yesterday." It was still a good day.

A tiny bit of snow fluttering around. A very lazy day. Beth did some work in her new workbook, and did some artwork and helped clean up around the house. We watched the Chiefs game (well, Beth and Tom did -- Pan and I took a nap). We talked to Ken and called Scott but missed him.

A light dinner and early out!

Monday, Dec. 27 -- Back to the regular routine, or at least trying to get back into the swing of working hard. Nancy worked from home; Beth was quite chatty and cheerful. She went to Curves in the afternoon and wanted to stand around and talk with her friends there instead of doing vigorous exercising. Can't say I blame her! They're very nice to her, always greeting her with hugs and big welcomes. She had a good exercise, too. We had dinner at home.

Tuesday, Dec. 28 -- Another work day! Today Beth and I also ran some errands; Beth is steadily working on her cursive workbook. We have a little spelling bee almost everyday -- it's a great indicator of how sharp she is feeling. Some days, she's just perfect; other days, she's quite slow and gets frustrated. We stop on those days and she goes back to coloring. When she's fresh, we also practice numbers but this is consistently slow. We go through little drills about the day and date and what's coming ahead.

Another day at Curves, too. Then dinner at home, and now to bed!

Wednesday, Dec. 29 -- Oatmeal for breakfast, brown sugar, raisins and apples -- yummy! More practicing with cursive and spelling. In the afternoon, Beth went to Curves again for a good workout. In the evening, we went over to Pam and Brian's house to babysit Simon. He was so funny! Beth took along her workbook and Simon kept coming in the dining room to check on her. "Beff?" he'd ask, and then go find her. "Beff!" We had pizza for dinner at their house. Kind of a late night for Beth, not in bed till after 9 p.m. Practice for new year's eve!

Thursday, Dec. 30 -- Nancy had to go in to work in the afternoon, so Beth and Tom stayed home. Chores for Beth: sweeping up, setting the table, cleaning up her desk. Later, Beth went to Curves for her afternoon exercise.

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From 2010-12 Beth's Winter Holiday

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Friday, Dec. 31 -- Some errands in the daytime; Beth practicing her handwriting and drawing, too. Beth and I go shopping; Beth gets a pair of shoes. Then in the afternoon, we get ready for our evening out. Beth wears a sparkly top that she really likes. It looks very fancy! We also fix her hair a bit and she's ready! We go to Max's house for a nice time with many of our bookstore friends -- John Donnelly, Kent, Dennis and Peggy Farney, Bill Russell, Bill Byrne and Kathy. It's a nice time and Beth monopolizes Peggy just chatting away, telling her all about everything. After that, we go for a late dinner at Aixois (nearly 9 p.m.). Emmanuel and Pascal and all the crew give Beth a big welcome and compliment her. We have oysters before dinner. The place is very full and very inviting. We have a great dinner and then get bundled up to head for home in the cold. Happy New Year!

Saturday, Jan. 1 -- Beth was disappointed that Curves wasn't open today, but glad to remember that it's a holiday so it's good for everyone to be with their families instead of at work. We ran a few errands, getting groceries for the family dinner tomorrow, and talked with Ken in the afternoon. We were babysitting Simon in the evening while Brian and Pam used the hot tub. Then we had a nice dinner made of a variety of leftovers. Beth stayed up a little later than usual because of our later dinner. She was enjoying working and using her new lap desk for drawing and dinner in the TV room.

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Week 5: Beth's Winter Holiday

Sunday, Dec. 19 -- Sleepy morning! We had omelets for breakfast (mushroom & feta) and then we got ready for a little more shopping. Family dinner in the afternoon was at Patsy's house. Beth likes the clam dip that she serves, and we all got a good laugh when Brian accidentally put barbecue sauce on his ice cream!

Monday, Dec. 20 -- Back to the routine! Nancy had a few meetings and worked from home the rest of the day. We started in on wrapping presents. Beth visited Curves in the afternoon; we took along a set of copies of four pieces of her art for Halley, the gal who gave Beth the nice present. Dinner at home.

Tuesday, Dec. 21 -- Beth was having a slow day -- slow to respond, difficulty in thinking. She had a good workout at Curves and we straightened out everything there, so she's paid up for her exercising. I'm amazed at how many people there know her. She gets hugs when she comes and goes there; very sweet. After the workout, I had to go to the KU Hospital to do some work (stuff that came up quickly and I couldn't do from home) so I took Beth with me. She sat at a desk and practiced her handwriting while I worked. She was very good and did a nice job of shaking hands when she met one of my colleagues there. We had dinner at home -- a nice tortellini with italian sausage and a salad. Cookie sampler for dessert!

Wednesday, Dec. 22 -- Nancy had to be away most of the day, so Beth was with Tom. They did some shopping and went to the bookshop for some work. Late in the afternoon, over to Curves. Dinner at home. Beth now has become reluctant to go up and get ready for bed by herself. She waits for me, calls out for me and generally won't do anything unless I'm there to guide her along and help out.

Thursday, Dec. 23 -- In the mornings when I hear Beth get up, I remind her to take a shower and help her pick out what to wear, and then I leave her alone. Today, she forgot to turn off the shower. I can't imagine how much water was wasted. After breakfast, she helped with sweeping up and wrapping presents. Beth is good at wrapping presents, a great helper! Getting some work done, then we decide to go last-minute shopping but Beth would rather go to Curves. OK, that's what we do. Then back at home, we start in on baking. Beth again does a great job, very patiently mixing stuff and helping out. We make a batch of nut rolls -- the little nut-filled crescents, one loaf and several nut rolls (pinwheels). We'll be sharing these with our brothers. Dinner at home -- made bread while we were baking, also a macaroni & cheese.

Friday, Dec. 24 -- We woke up to a White Christmas (eve)! Just a nice little flurry of big soft snowflakes, enough to cover everything but too wet to stick for long. Today we will go to our regular Christmas eve lunch with Andrea, Vince and Mary Lynn, and then tonight we go to Patsy's house for her Christmas Eve party.

The lunch was very nice. Andrea presented Beth with a cute and Christmas-y pin, which looked great on Beth. (There are photos.) Lunch was fun.

Later, for the party, Beth got dressed up in sparkly top and black pants -- everyone commented on how pretty she looked. She liked it very much, got to hug a lot of people!

Saturday, Dec. 25 -- Christmas Day! We got up a little early to be all ready! We were at Erin's at 9 a.m. Beth enjoyed a breakfast there, and then it was time to dive into the gift giving. The kids had loads of fun with all their new toys and stuff.

Beth got some candles, soaps and lip gloss, pens, a lap desk, a drawing book and a photo album. I'll have to work on getting some prints to fill it up. After all that ruckus, we went home and opened our own presents by our Christmas tree. Beth got a sweater, a couple of shirts, some pants, some pens, a travel pen kit, some paper, socks and such. It was quite nice!

We relaxed a bit then, and later went back to Erin's for Christmas dinner. We had fun with the kids and their new toys, and then sat down to a turkey dinner. Beth had an ice cream truffle for dessert along with warm apple cake. She was nearly falling asleep at the table by the end of it all!

A joyous Noel.

Week 4: Beth's Winter Holiday

Sunday, Dec. 12 -- What a cold day! Snow on the ground, and blowing, so we stay inside all day. We decide to rearrange our bedroom upstairs and it takes most of the afternoon. Beth is very helpful, moving books and chattering. We get a call from Scott -- we hadn't seen him online so hadn't been able to talk with him on the video. We tried calling Ken, but missed him. We had family dinner at Erin's house. Beth really enjoyed it!

Monday, Dec. 13 -- Beth is getting slower and slower in the mornings. I barely get to see her when I have to go to work. I was able to work from home in the afternoon. Beth is practicing her printing and writing everyday now. Today she worked on her Christmas cards, selecting each one individually and writing out a little note on each. You should get them soon. We had dinner at home, and then went out for a little shopping -- a couple of quick errands -- and then we went to a local school for a play, put on by our dear friend Sylvia. Beth, as you know, can't resist a darkened theater and was snoring within minutes of the start of the first act. We left early so she could get a proper sleep in her little bed.

Tuesday, Dec. 14 -- Still cold here, but Beth is convinced the snow is melting. "Look, look, the grass is comin' back," she'll say. Today, after I got home from work in the morning, our friends Sarah and Lucy came over to help us bake and decorate cookies. (See the photos.) This was loads of fun -- from rolling out the dough, using the cookie cutters, then mixing the frosting, decorating the cookies and finishing them off with sprinkles. We learned that Sarah's birthday is the same as Ken's, and that we all have three big brothers. There was even some singing... Loads of fun.

Later in the evening, we babysit Simon at our house. What fun!

Wednesday, Dec. 15 -- Nancy was working most of the day, so Beth was with Tom. She went to Curves in the afternoon. Then we had a quick dinner, and it was off to an event at Union Station, at the Irish Center. A friend of our was putting on a show about "Nelly Don," the Kansas City business woman and fascinating historical figure. There was a fashion show with it. A lot of our friends came, so it was nice to see everyone. (Beth fell asleep during the talk, but it was OK, our friend understood!)

Thursday, Dec. 16 -- Another busy day! We're working on xmas cards, laundry, baking and work, of course. Beth is doing a good job of sweeping the floors most days. She went to Curves in the afternoon again, and then we went out to have dinner with our friends Jason and Angela. We had a very nice dinner downtown at Bo Lings -- I think this counts as a new restaurant for Beth! It was great fun, and then home!

Friday, Dec. 17 -- We started the day at Rotary, Beth and me. It was the annual Christmas event, with singing and everybody wearing goofy Santa hats. Beth was so happy to be there, and stood up and waved at everybody when she was introduced. She did a good job on the Pledge of Allegiance, too. And the singing! It was really fun. The rest of the day was working for Nancy; but Beth and Tom went out to visit Andrea for Happy Hour in the afternoon. Then, for Beth, a workout at Curves. We took a sample of her artwork to share with the gals there, and as it turned out, Halley, one of the workers, had a Christmas present for Beth! It was so sweet. She says Beth is the hardest-working member of Curves! When we got home, Beth opened the present. Then, finally, a night at home! We had dinner in and then to bed.

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Saturday, Dec. 18 -- We talked with Ken and Scott. We tried a video conference with Scott but technical difficulties kept dropping the video, so we had an old-fashioned phone call. Great to catch up with everybody! After that, Beth and I went shopping. I've been trying to find some clothes for her, but we've really had a hard time finding pants. We got a few things, but they will be a surprise for Christmas for her. Later, in the afternoon, we went to Aixois (our favorite restaurant) where a friend was autographing his new book, a history of the Beech (Aircraft) family. Lots of our friends from the bookshop came for the party: Kent, John Donnelly, Aften, Bill, Sally, her Mom Kay, Heather, Jason, Steve, Max, his son Steve, Diane and Marc,Kevin and Miriam, and I'm sure I'm forgetting others. Beth enjoyed it, mostly because she sat in front of the snacks and got to try several kinds of cheese and pate. (Yes, she liked it.) After the party, we decided to stay there for dinner. It was great! We had oysters (a special treat!) and Beth had the rotisserie chicken and chocolate mousse for dessert. She loved it so much, she was so happy!

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Week 3: Beth's Winter Holiday 2010

Sunday, Dec. 5 -- A leisurely morning, Nancy's famous omelets for breakfast -- today's flavor was spinach and feta cheese. Then we went shopping for Beth, with some success: a winter coat, slippers, a turtleneck shirt, a sweater, undies and socks. We looked for shoes but no success. (Everyday, Beth looks for her black shoes and has to be reminded that she didn't bring them.) Oh well. We'll keep looking. After that, time for family dinner, this week at Brian and Pam's house. And what fun! Pam had gingerbread cookies for the kids to decorate. Beth did a couple very nicely!

Monday, Dec. 6 -- We mostly stayed around the house, but had to run some errands too. Beth came along, of course. She had a good workout at Curves. We had dinner at home -- chicken with rice and veggies, and a cookie for dessert.

Tuesday, Dec. 7 -- Nancy had several meetings, but took Beth to Curves in between them. At Curves, the gals there gave her a piece of fudge to sample. What's with that? She loved it! They have a little card up with her name and they're keeping track of everyday that she's been there. It's a good list already. They all know her! Today the two gals ran to give her hugs when she was ready to go. We had dinner at home and then got started on some cookies. It was great to talk with Mike today!

Wednesday, Dec. 8 -- We've started some new exercises in writing, both printing and script, and adding. It's surprising how she has lost so much of her previous skill, but she enjoys the exercises and I think it gives her a different sense of accomplishment. After the exercises, she can color and play music. Another day at Curves. Dinner at home and then we made cookies; tomorrow we bake them.

Thursday, Dec. 9 -- Another busy day for Nancy, with a lot of meetings away. It makes Beth anxious, so I try to explain as much as I can, over and over. Sometimes it helps to write a note to her, but other times she forgets the note. In the afternoon, Beth and Tom went to visit Andrea and then she went to Curves. Dinner at home again. Tom and Beth also raked leaves.

Friday, Dec. 10 -- Up early, early, early for the Rotary meeting. We were there at 7 a.m. We practiced saying "Good Morning!" and "How are you?" and other conversation. Everybody welcomes her and calls her by name. She loves going to the meetings and talks about it all day afterward. This afternoon, we went Xmas shopping. Beth liked it. Then, it was off to Curves and the grocery store. In the evening, we went to Lily's basketball game. Beth liked that too, clapping and cheering -- and she got to nap in the car!

Saturday, Dec. 11 -- French toast for breakfast! We go shopping in the afternoon, and then in the evening, we go to our neighborhood party.

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Week 2: Beth's Winter Holiday 2010

Sunday, Nov. 28 -- we had breakfast at home, asparagus, tomato and feta omelet -- yummy. We started out with a little shopping, not much luck, and then it was outdoors to rake leaves. We finished the other half of the yard that was left over from last weekend!

We had leftovers for dinner, including pie!

Monday, Nov. 29 -- Nancy was working, so Beth was with Tom part of the day. She has been practicing writing and numbers, and also working on her art. In the afternoon, she went with us to visit our accountant. Beth had a good workout at Curves and helped with dinner.

Tuesday, Nov. 30 -- Beth and Nancy went to meet a friend for coffee. Beth had a vanilla latte and she REALLY like it. Also a piece of blueberry coffeecake. She liked going out, but didn't like it when Nancy had to go to work after that. She went to Curves again in the afternoon.

Wednesday, Dec. 1 -- Nancy was gone much of the day, so Beth and Tom went to the shop. Beth was coloring there. Another Curves day. The gal working at Curves remembered Beth from previous trips and told me that they sang together throughout the whole workout!

Thursday, Dec. 2 -- Another fun meeting today -- Beth and Nancy went to lunch with a friend at a favorite cookie shop/restaurant. Really good! Later, Tom took Beth to Curves while Nancy went to work late. We had pizza for dinner.

Friday, Dec. 3 -- One of Beth's favorite things is to go to the Rotary meeting. Everyone knows her and welcomes her, and she stands up and waves at everyone when she is introduced. She forgot some of the Pledge of Allegiance this morning, though, so we will have to practice that again. After breakfast, Beth and Tom went to Brian's house to babysit for Simon. And in the evening, Simon came over here to stay with us -- what fun!

Five days in a row at Curves. Good job!

Saturday, Dec. 4 -- Today we all went to see the Missouri Rep's production of "A Christmas Carol" -- Beth, Lily, Graham, Poppy, Tom and me. We started out with lunch at Winstead's, then on to the show. We got a couple of pictures of us goofing off, including the kids in costume (photos coming soon). Then on to the show. Everyone really liked it. It was scary (but not too bad) and there was singing and dancing and of course, all the ghosts. It was a great show. We sang Christmas carols as loud as we could all the way home.

Week 1: Beth's Winter Holiday 2010

Beth and Ken arrived on Saturday Nov. 20, a direct flight from Columbus.

We started out with breakfast at home and just catching up. We raked some leaves and relaxed around the house and then headed over to Aixois to catch up with some friends. We had a glass of wine there and chatted a while, and then we went to a rugby fundraiser out in Lenexa. We saw some friends out there -- notably, Eddie Delahunt came and tipped his cap to Beth. She was delighted and mimed tipping a cap back to him!

Sunday, Nov. 21 -- mostly stayed around home, Beth wanted french toast for breakfast. We went to family dinner over at Patsy's house. Ken couldn't believe how the children have grown. It was a lovely dinner.

Monday, Nov. 22 -- Beth, Ken and Tom went to the shop and chatted with friends, and had a quiet day. Nancy had some work to do, a little late. We had a late dinner of chicken and noodles. Nancy and Beth started planning the big dinner.

Tuesday, Nov. 23 -- Tom took Ken and Beth to the Nelson Art Gallery, but it was closed. Instead they went on some errands. We had dinner at home, while we started in on making the pies.

Wednesday, Nov. 23 -- Nancy at work again, and today Tom took Ken and Beth to the Nelson for a nice tour, then downtown to the Webster House for a lunch. Nancy met up with everyone there. Later, we met up with our friends Sarah and Lucy, and we visited Lucy's home in Olathe. At night, we went to O'Dowd's to see Eddie.

Thursday was the big day! Dinner at 1 p.m. We had turkey, ham, dressing, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, corn souffle, green beans, rolls, cranberry sauce, salad, and desserts -- pumpkin pie, pumpkin cake, pecan pie, cookies and fudge! A total of 15 crowded around our table. It was a wonderful day.

Friday, Nov. 26 -- We all went out for a little visit to a couple of shops we like, a printing studio and then to a cooking shop. We relaxed at home until time to go to Aften's house and then to the Mayor's Xmas tree lighting at Crown Center. It's not as big an event as the Plaza lighting, but it was nice to be out with friends. We went back to Aften's for yummy lobster bisque.

Saturday, Nov. 27 -- The football games kept the guys in front of the TV a lot, but we ran a few errands in Brookside, and then went to visit Max. After that, time to take Ken to the airport for his journey home.

Sunday, July 25

Well, already, it's Beth's last day in KC.

We have a big breakfast -- I make bacon as a special treat, then my famous cheese omlet and toast. Beth spends the next two hours enjoying breakfast.

I'm working, going to print out Beth's blog for everyone in Columbus, and then we'll start packing.

How did the time go so quickly?

Saturday, July 24

It starts out as a beautiful day -- hot and bright.

After a little breakfast, we get ready for swimming: The Billingsley crew is coming over and another family, the Binghams, who have two girls the same ages as Lily and Poppy. Patsy comes by, too, and she brings along a little terrier that she rescued from the freeway near her office. It's a cute little thing, and Lily wanted to adopt it but her parents said no.

We had snacks with all the kids and they drew great chalk pictures all around the pool -- an octupus, several butterflies, hearts, peace symbols!

Everyone had a great time. Beth really liked the Binghams, she talked to them nonstop. When she was introduced to Scott Bingham, she said, "Oh, I have a brother named Scott ..." and then launched into the entire raft of memories about Scott!

After they all left, we got cleaned up to go to the grocery, bank and post office. We had to get a few things for a little party that night.

But all afternoon, it poured! Heavy storms, right up to about 6 p.m.

Beth looked really nice. She wore Phuong's pretty leopard-print top with a pair of black slacks, and I fixed her hair a little. She was really chatty with everyone and loved it when I put the food on the table.

She turned in a little after 9, she could barely keep her eyes open. But what fun!

Friday, July 23

Friday -- you know what that means! Time for another Rotary meeting!

Beth realizes that it will be her last one, and tells everyone so. She's very bright and cheerful this morning, a little less shy. She stands up and waves when she is introduced to everyone.

She just loves it, she talks about it the rest of the day.

Back at home, she works on her art while I'm working nearby. The hits keep playing over and over: James Taylor and Carole King, then KD Lang, volume 1 and 2, then James Taylor Greatest Hits. Sometimes Sarah, Simply Red, but those are the staples that she plays over and over on this trip.

I go to meetings in the afternoon, and Beth goes with Tom to visit Andrea. There's a little party at her place, so Beth gets a second buffet -- this time for lunch. She really likes it, although I heard two stories about how many chips and dip she had. Tom said she got a plateful, with a huge glop of dip. Beth said she had just a few, not many, and just a dab of dip. Hmmmmm.

Back at home in the afternoon, it's another pool day. I work outside while Beth swims. She really has a good workout today, in the water until about 6:15 p.m. when the pool guys come to clean up.

We decide to take it easy for dinner. I have some shrimp with cocktail sauce and we order a pizza.

By the time we're done with that, it's time for the evening clean up and bed!

Thursday, July 22

A nice hot morning again.

Beth has cereal and peaches and coffee for breakfast, and helps out with sweeping the floors in the kitchen and dining room.

This morning, I tell Beth about the weekend -- getting her ready for the trip back home. She's crestfallen at first. "Oh no, Nancy," she says, "ohhhhhh." But we keep talking and she starts getting excited. She's really excited for the California trip. "Ken and Phuong are going and they're taking me too," she says. "All of us, all three of us, are going to California!"

We see that Scott is online, so we get to have a little video conference with him. We see Jeff and the kitty and doggies, too. Beth has a long chat with Scott.

After that, it's time for the pool. I work outside while she swims. She practiced every stroke -- sidestroke, breaststroke, backstroke, butterfly and freestyle. A little bit of diving, even.

Later, I have to go to work, so she gets ready for Curves. Tom takes her and runs errands while she's working out.

By the time I get home, they're all home too. We're having dinner at home -- tonight it's rice with grilled chicken and veggies, a little teriyaki sauce. Still some leftover birthday cake for dessert.

A quiet day.

Wednesday, July 21

Yes, a very busy day today.

I have to be out nearly all day, from 10 a.m. until 6 p.m., so Beth stays with the Birthday Guy all day.

She makes Tom a card, which promises presents. They go to Aixois together to do some work. The guys in the kitchen say hello to Beth and are very nice to her, she is very shy and makes them laugh and then she giggles, too.

They go to the post office and then it's off to Curves.

After that, time for a swim. The day is hot and blustery. It takes Beth a long time to get into the pool. She inches her way in and stands forever in one place. Finally, she swims and practices all the strokes she knows: backstroke, butterfly, underwater, etc.

When I'm finally home from a long hectic day, we decide what to do for Tom's birthday. Guesses? O'Dowds! Eddie is playing, so we know it will be fun.


We have fish and chips, and a Guinness. We find some friends are there too, and one of the gals from the Irish Center is celebrating her birthday, too! She shares her birthday cake with us. Beth eats hers before dinner! Eddie led the crowd in his own happy birthday song for both of them; he also sang the Nancy song (like always).

After O'Dowds, we stopped by to see what was up at Aixois. We sat at the bar and chatted with our friends there -- one from Turkey, one from Czechoslovakia. It was a late night for Bethie, all for Tom's special day.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Another hot day!

Beth and I have breakfast, then I'm off to a meeting. By the time I'm back, it's time for the pool.

Beth swims most of the afternoon. I work in my outdoor, poolside office nearby.

In the afternoon,we go out to meet a friend, Sarah and her sister, Lucy. Lucy and Beth are remarkably similar -- the same size, born the same year, the same glasses, even haircuts look the same. Lucy has three brothers, just like us, and she has two sisters.

Lucy's favorite hobby is making hooked rugs -- that used to be Beth's favorite, too. Lucy is a sweet girl, shy with us, but also interested. She thought it was neat that Beth has three bedrooms -- one in KC, one at Mike's, and one at Ken's. We took along one of Beth's pictures to show them what she likes to do.

We all had some ice cream and chatted a bit. We learned that Lucy lives in a group home with three roommates and 24/7 care. She's also part of a program that has activities every day -- all kinds of things, going to movies, visiting the zoo or the farm, playing games. Her family takes her for visits on the weekends. Sarah said it's been great for Lucy, with good care at the group home.

It was a fun meeting until a big storm threatened and we figured we'd better get home before it hit. I think Beth and Lucy can become friends and might enjoy spending some time together. Lucy said she'd like to see our house. We'll arrange another meeting in November.

It was a huge storm! We had dinner at home while the rain fell. We had planned to go to Poppy's T-ball game, but the rain canceled that.

Tomorrow is a busy day.

Monday, July 19

Well, I had a busy day and barely got to see Beth at all!

I set up breakfast for her, but had to leave before she made it downstairs. I would be gone most of the day, until about 3:30 p.m. so she spent the day with Tom.

After breakfast, they went to the bookstore. He made sandwiches and beans for lunch, and then took her to Curves in the afternoon.

She had a good workout at Curves, nearly an hour, and then chatted nonstop. I think she had a good day!

After my run, Beth and I made dinner. Beth set the table and got everything ready inside, while I took care of the grill. We had Kansas City strip steaks, mushrooms on the grill, grilled corn on the cob, and asparagus (yes, on the grill). It was delicious!

Beth had some birthday cake for dessert, and then it's off to bed. She just finished her shower and now is all tucked in for the night.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Hot, hot, hot!

A steamy morning, so a light breakfast. Well, maybe not for everyone -- Beth had a waffle and yogurt with her coffee. We noticed that Scott was online, so we had nice little video conference with him this morning.


I went for a run before it got too hot, and then headed for the pool. We all went out to play in the pool for a while.

Then we had to go to the grocery, and then tried to get a little work done before our family dinner. Dinner was at Patsy's house, just us and the Billingsley crew -- Lily, Graham, Poppy, Margo, Erin and Drew. Brian, Pam and Simon are in Canada visiting Pam's family.

Dinner doubled as a birthday party (early) for Tom. We had birthday hats all around, and we sang Happy Birthday to Tom. Plus, of course, cake and ice cream. Beth really enjoyed the dinner.

Now, home again. Beth's in bed.

Saturday, July 17

Ahhh, Saturday!

We sleep in a little (I'm up to get some work done) but it's leisurely.

Beth has a nice little cereal and banana and coffee and yogurt for breakfast; I'm working then go for a run.

We see that Scott is online and we get to have a video conference with him. That's so much fun! We get to see Freeway chewing on him! Beth and Scott have a nice chat; she is so excited to come visit him in California.

A little later, we go to run errands - to the bank, to the post office, to Target. Beth gets some new undies, a polo shirt, some shampoo. Nothing much, but fun shopping and looking around.

When we get home, the temperature says 94 degrees. That means time for the pool!

Again, Beth does a few laps and swims a bit before relaxing on the float. I'm working, but take a dip every little bit to keep me going. When I'm done, I join her on the floats and we take a nap!

Then, it's time for dinner! We decide to celebrate Bastille Day, so it's off to Aixois. We get there just in time -- it's busy! We have a wonderful meal and Beth looks so pretty -- she is so happy and having such a good time! I take a photo on my cell phone and send it to Scott (Hope you got it!).



Beth has Rotisserie chicken breast with lemon and herbs, salad and pommes frites -- the best in KC. Oh, she loves it! It was a really good meal.

Back at home, it's turning into night. So time for Beth to get ready for bed again!

Friday, July 16

Oh boy! Another week. We finish it out with another visit to the Rotary Club for breakfast. Everyone greets Beth, and she shakes hands nicely. She says "good morning" and gets very shy. But everyone loves to see her.

After that, I had to go to work. I set Beth up on my laptop to write an email to you all. When I came back, this is what she had:

Dear Mike, Scott and Ken,

Hi how are you to day enjoy your day is it hot out there iwent to rotary we b reakffast bu ff et


Oh well, it was hot -- about 90 degrees and bright and sunny. Time for the pool!

I helped Beth get in and encouraged her to do some laps before lounging. She loved it! She was in the pool the rest of the afternoon, all the way until the dark clouds came in and it started to thunder. Whoa! That took us inside.

It was but a short rainshower, followed by a rainbow.

But by now, it was time for dinner. We had broiled salmon (with a soy-honey-ginger marinade I made), salad and fresh asparagus. Just right!

Now time to close out. Beth's gone up to get ready for bed.

Thursday, July 15

Isn't it always a good day when you get to start it with a homemade waffle for breakfast?

Beth seemed to think so. She savored every bite!

I had a meeting out over lunch, so we were at home in the morning and the afternoon. Beth was home with Tom while I was gone. At about 3 p.m.,Beth went back to visit her friends at Curves. I think she had a good workout.

It was hot here! Sunny and steamy. We told Patsy we'd meet her and the kids for a little shopping at an entrepreneur's stand from her work. We met there -- Poppy, Graham and Lily -- and bought a couple of little things to help out the kids from the city. They were selling crafts they'd made. We got a little birdbath and a couple of bows.

Then, off to the grocery for us. (We were out of coffee -- can't have that.) We went to the grocery store in Prairie Village; nearby, but I'm not really familiar with it. I couldn't find anything and forgot half the stuff we were going to get.

At home, I made dinner. We had a nice big omelet with ham, asparagus, tomato and feta cheese. Yummy! Plus a Caesar salad and some watermelon.

Then time to get ready for bed!

Wednesday, July 14

Happy Bastille Day! Not that we're celebrating, just thought I'd mention it.

Beth had toast, fruit and juice for breakfast; I had to go off to work for part of the afternoon. She stayed home with Tom, just hanging around.

When I got home, she finally decided to go swimming. (It took her forever to get ready!) It's a great pool day, nice and hot, makes the water feel great. When she finally got in the water, she headed straight for the lounger! No way! I encouraged her to do some laps, and with a bit resting in between, she did several. No dives today, though.

In the afternoon, about 5 p.m., we got ready to go visit Andrea at her assisted living home, where they were having a big Hawaiian Luau. There was a band, and dancing, and an open buffet. Beth had a little plate of snacks while we visited with Andrea. Vince was there too, so we got to catch up with him, too.

Then, home again! We had the last of the leftovers for dinner. (No complaints!)

That's it for another day.

Tuesday, July 13

Today, after breakfast we were able to catch up with Scott for a video conference. That was fun, especially when she finally got chatty and excited about her upcoming visit to California. She hardly ever stops talking about it here!

It's a gorgeous day, so after breakfast, Beth changes into her swimming suit and goes out to the pool. She goes on a visit with Tom in the afternoon, while I'm at an appointment, and then when she comes back, it's back to the pool again. I'm getting her to practice her diving and do laps, especially since it was too late to go to Curves today. She does a few and then makes her way over to the side, where she discusses whatever's on her mind for a while until she's ready to go back in again and repeat the process.

Pan is hot but is starting to enjoy being outside with us. She's been so good -- she stays under my chair or nearby, and follows me if I go inside. This might work out after all!

Almost time for dinner; I'll finish this up later.

We had picnic foods for dinner -- fresh tomatoes with basil and goat cheese, watermelon, brats and burgers, etc.

Beth did a good job of getting herself ready for bed.

But then, a shock at 10:30 p.m. I come up to turn in to bed, and there's Beth -- fully dressed, washed, bed made, preparing to come downstairs. She wouldn't believe me that it was still night, and she resisted going back to bed. She was a bit agitated.

I showed her that it was still dark outside and asked her to read the digital clock carefully. She finally understood that it was night time still; we went through the whole process of getting ready for bed again.

Monday, July 12

How can this month be half-way done already?

Oh well. You know it's a good day when you get to start it with fresh Peach Cobbler. That's what Beth had for breakfast. Plus coffee and toast.

I worked from home until the afternoon, and then had to go to work and stay there for an evening meeting until about 7 p.m.

Beth was swimming in the day, and then went to Curves with Tom in the afternoon. Then when I got home, we had a nice dinner (leftovers). Beth is doing a nice job setting the table for us and sweeping up almost every day.

After dinner, it was time for bed already!

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Big rains today!

The sky got really dark in the morning and we had a giant rainstorm. Then it cleared up a little, then it rained again. Over and over, it was like this.

Beth just kept tabs on the weather from her spot by the window. Oh, it's clearing up. Then a little while later, Oh, it's coming down wet again!

I went out to grill some chicken for dinner, and of course, I picked exactly the wrong time and it started raining again. I had to stand under an umbrella while cooking on the grill!

But, by the time for dinner, it turned into a beautiful day. The kids came over and played in the pool before dinner. We even ate outside, it was so nice.

Dinner was chicken-olive-feta pizzas on pita bread, with spanikopitas, salad and the last of the hummus. We had peach cobbler with vanilla ice cream for dessert.

And then another day is done!

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Saturday, July 10

Well, I solved the mystery of the missing coffee cup.

I should explain: Beth always uses her favorite coffee cup, the one with kitties playing all round, happy and frisky. Yesterday, we couldn't find it. Beth looked everywhere -- in her bedroom, at her desk, the dining room, outside? Nowhere to be found.

It was in the microwave oven!

I found it this morning as I was making coffee and wondering what alternate cup she might want. It struck me -- she loves to keep reheating her coffee and she sometimes forgets what she's doing... well, that's what had happened.

This morning, she came down in sweat pants, a shirt and sweater. I told her how hot and sunny it is and suggested she try shorts and a T-shirt. She went upstairs to change and came back down in the same thing. She'd forgotten why she went up. So try again -- this time, she put on a short sleeve t-shirt, with the sweater over it. We put away the sweater. This is part of the reason it takes her so long to get ready. Even when I lay out clothes for her the night before, she forgets in the morning.

More later -- it's a beautiful day.

Folks came over for a little party today, starting about 3 p.m. We had kids swimming in the pool (Bethie too). We had some music playing, watermelon and snacks, and then dinner from the grill -- brats, burgers and chicken -- plus hummus, green bean salad, potato salad and beans.

Most folks stayed until sundown. It was fun!

Friday, July 9

Got Beth up early so she could go to the Rotary meeting with me for breakfast. Everyone knows her and greets her by name, and just in case they don't, she is introduced to the group. She stands up and waves.

Afterward, back at home, it's music and art in the morning.

In the afternoon, it's a bright, sunny, gorgeous day and the pool calls! Beth changes and spends the afternoon outside swimming, relaxing and reading. She found a book here on Gnomes and she actually read it all. She read out loud, quietly, to herself and occasionally giggled. I was glad to see that because with her other books, she just carries them around -- I had never seen her open them and actually read them. I'm glad she still likes to read; I think we just have to make sure it's something that interests her.

It was such a nice day, when I was done with my meetings, I moved my office outside too. We were all outside when Brian, Pam and Simon dropped by. There was lots of laughing and splashing going on -- Simon is really enjoying the pool!

For dinner, I grilled some chicken and veggies and mixed it all up with some pasta and feta cheese and fresh herbs from my garden. We finished off the watermelon for dessert. A very summery day and dinner.

And off to bed!

July 8, 2010

Beth had a good sleep and was downstairs for breakfast at about 8:30. I had to go to a meeting, and then was out much of the day working, so she was with Tom mostly. Doing housework and chores -- her task is to sweep up. She does a very thorough job.

One of my afternoon meetings was canceled, so I came home earlier than expected. We were able to do a video conference with Scott, which was really fun. We got to see Scott and Jeff, and the doggies and the kitty, Freeway. Beth liked talking about his peanut-shaped pool and said she can't wait to go visit out there with Ken and Phuong. Beth showed Scott some of her exercises at Curves.

And then it was off to Curves! She had a good late afternoon workout and then it was time to get ready for dinner.

I had joined a group for Siblings with Down, and it was our social night. We met out at Cactus Grill out south. There were three other folks there and they all enjoyed meeting Beth. It was a fun dinner.

Then home, late, so off to bed!

July 7, 2010

Beth has definitely established a pattern in her schedule here, sleeping in a bit.

She always has fruit and coffee for breakfast, and today it was cereal, too. She gets her little desk set up and then chooses her music. Her current favorite is a tie between the new Carole King-James Taylor "Live at the Troubadour" album and KD Lang's "Recollections." She plays them both, over and over and over.

I had to go out to work, so Beth stayed with Tom. It's another rainy day again. They decide to go shopping, visiting bike shops, and then they stop at Aixois for lunch.

Later when I'm back in the afternoon, Beth gets ready for Curves. And then, by the time she's done with all that and changes clothes again, it's about time for dinner.
Tonight it's one of my experiments -- chicken with olives, cauliflower and salad; watermelon and a cookie for dessert.

And again, time to get ready for bed. Beth takes a shower and gets all set. Good night!

July 6, 2010

Back to work! It's a rainy day.

We are up early, Beth is going to come with me to an all-morning meeting in Lawrence, Kansas. It's a 40 mile drive, so Beth has a banana and some yogurt in the car. She keeps up a non-stop chatter the entire way there. She's laughing and cheerful.

We get there, and Beth joins us in a nice conference room. While I'm meeting with a couple of KU folks, Beth gets to work on her art. She's great,and enjoys the change of scenery. She shakes hands with everyone she meets and is very polite.

On the way back, we stop for a sandwich at Classic Cookie. We bought a few cookies, too. Yummy.

We have lunch at home, and then it's about time for Curves. They open at 3 p.m. and that's a good time to go because it's not too crowded yet. The lady there remembers Beth and starts keeping a log for her. Beth signs in, printing her name neatly on the sheet.

After the exercise, we're back at home, Beth changes and then plays some music and also works on her drawing a bit. I work at my desk in the kitchen with her, and we chatter back and forth.

Then time for dinner, then Beth is off to bed!

July 5, 2010

Another Holiday -- yay!

It was mostly a grey day, some rain and kinda sticky. We didn't have much to do and mostly stayed around the house.

We were outside some. Beth, Pan and I spent some time out in the afternoon in the yard. We tried to call everyone, and finally got to talk to Mike. He sounded great! We sent an email to Scott (from Beth) and Ken called back later when we were out. Oh well, we'll catch up with everyone soon.

In the afternoon, we went over to Erin and Drew's new house for family dinner. Everyone was there: Graham, Lily, Poppy, Margo, Erin, Drew; Brian, Pam, Simon; Patsy, Nancy, Tom and Bethie! Dinner was really nice and Beth had three kinds of dessert -- S'mores, Mississippi Mud and Red-White-&-Blue sugar cookies.

By the time we got home, it was getting dark and we were all tired out! Beth got ready for bed and that was it!

The Fourth of July

Happy Independence Day!

Beth was slow to rise again, even Tom was up before she was! She wore her sparkly t-shirt with the flag and fireworks.

We had breakfast at home, eggs for Tom and French Toast for Beth and me. That sparked her talking about how Scott loves French Toast and always used to have it at home, at the old house on Primrose. She kept up a steady stream of Scott chatter the rest of the morning. Pan was particularly excited watching the birds and critters outside her window today.

After breakfast, Beth and I went on a walk to Loose Park. She even agreed to jog for a couple of blocks and kept a pretty good power walk pace for most of the way. Once we got to the park, we stopped for a break on the swings. "Almost heaven..." she sang.

It was threatening rain most of the day, but we did spend a little time relaxing first in the hot tub and then the pool. Beth enjoyed the hot tub but thought the pool would be too cold.

We had a dinner mostly from the grill -- roasted potatoes, pork tenderloin and asparagus, with homemade fruit turnovers for dessert. And by the end of dinner, it was time for Beth to shower and get ready for bed. By this time, it's raining out and most of the fireworks are abandoned. We saw a couple of flashes in the sky, but most were rained out.

Saturday, July 3

Bethie must have been tired -- I've never seen her sleep so late. It was after 8 a.m. before she woke up.

She had breakfast and then we went out running errands, here and there. We also went to Target and got her some stuff. When we were ready to leave, it was pouring down rain.

Beth says, "Nancy, where's the umbrella?" Well, it's in the car. "Oh, Nancy!" She was so dismayed. We ran out to the car (a long way, because I always park far from the door where nobody else parks, just to stay away from the crazy drivers). We got soaked!

We remembered Scott's birthday, and called. I hope he liked our singing Happy Birthday on his voicemail.

Later in the afternoon, we stopped by to visit with our friend Max at his house. We'd hoped to sit outside in his garden, but it was still raining. We chatted inside, and then headed home. Beth was getting sleepy.

At home, we ordered a pizza. Beth took a shower, and then when she came down, our pizza was here. Yummy! Then off to bed.

Beth's July 2010 Visit

July 2, 2010

Up early, check the computer for an update on Beth's flight this morning. Wow! It's going to be a half-hour early! I shift into high speed to be able to get out to the airport, through the rush hour traffic. I get there and see the signs change on the board: delayed. Oh well.

She arrives without any difficulty, chattering away, happy as can be. We go home and she gets settled in her room, putting all her stuff out and just the way she likes it.

Then she comes down and gets her station set up at the little French bistro table. She gets out her pens, paper and previous art work. Pens all lined up, in order. Books in the corner. Pile of napkins. Then sort through my CDs until they are in an order that she prefers (well, why should all the classical music be in the same pile?)

Settled in.

We have a little lunch (grilled cheese sandwich and an apple) and then Beth and Tom go off grocery shopping.

When supplies are all put away, it's time for a swim. Beth gets ready and gets in the pool. Ahhhh! She's splashing away, having a great time, giggling all the while. Then on the float -- naptime!

We have grilled orange chicken and mixed veggies, with a little chilled Gewurztraminer. It's a lovely evening.

When we go inside, we see that The Wizard of Oz is showing. Beth is soon singing along ... until she gets tired. Up to bed, 8:30 p.m. It's been a long and fun day.

Back to Columbus

Today Beth returns home, but first, most of the day in Kansas City.

Breakfast -- fresh fruit salad with mango, kiwi, apple, banana and raspberries, and toast and yogurt and coffee.

Beth and Tom go to babysit with Simon while Nancy works. Then in the afternoon, final packing and getting ready for the trip.

Yesterday, we had a nice big breakfast at home and then went shopping and running errands around. Then it was off to family dinner at Brian and Pam's house. Beth got to say goodbye to everyone, hugs all around.

How long until the summer vacation?

Last week in April -- packed full!

More catching up:

Sunday, April 25 was action packed!
We had a nice leisurely breakfast at home -- omelets with asparagus & feta, toast, potatoes with onions and peppers. Kay wrote out beautiful calligraphy for all of us, even for Scott and Pan!

In the afternoon, we went over to Patsy's house for family dinner, all of us, Tom and Nancy, Beth and Kay. Everyone was there, and Kay was a big hit with Graham. The babies are just starting to walk, so it was fun to watch them playing. Dinner was great, and Beth liked cuddling with Patsy's cat Troy, who's very affectionate.


After dinner, we left for another party -- a concert downtown at the Gem Theater at 18th and Vine! It was a Jazz Cabaret, with the Wild Women of Kansas City -- go have a listen -- and Tim Whitmer and a whole flock of absolutely top-flight musicians. They did some great songs and it was an amazing show.

On Monday, it was back to the usual routine -- mostly. We had to say goodbye to Kay and her friends; they had one more stop in Kansas City before they head back home to Taiwan.

Later Beth went with Tom to a meeting downtown at the Irish Museum, where she had a sandwich and one of the ladies even took her for ice cream. She loved it!

That evening, we went downtown to meet our friends Paul and Gail who always love to see Bethie. We had pizza at a nice little shop and watch the sun shining through a rainstorm. It was a nice time.

On Tuesday, nothing much to report. Beth had pancakes and fruit for breakfast-- that was a hit! She stayed around the house with us, swept the floor, and went out with Tom for a little bit to the restaurant. She had a good workout at Curves.

We had dinner at home -- a good jambalaya dish with chicken and sausage and lots of veggies. Good to have a relaxing day!

On Wednesday, another day with Curves. Then we went to Aixois for a great dinner with our friends Aften and Don, and Tim and Janet. (We always go to the Thanksgiving fireworks and concert with Aften; and Don usually has his banjo and likes to sing with Beth.) Dinner was really great, Beth loved her rotisserie chicken, fries and salad, and then she REALLY loved the dessert -- she ordered the homemade chocolate ice cream and then got to finish off Don's chocolate fondue!

Thursday was mostly at home. Nancy did a lot of work from home, and then we took a break and did a little shopping for Beth. Beth did her chores her, sweeping the floor and setting the table for dinner. We had a really tasty pasta with chicken, broccoli, asparagus, mushrooms, peppers and a little creamy cheese sauce. It was yummy, Beth really liked it. Strawberries and a little ice cream made Beth really happy before bedtime.

Friday morning -- that means Rotary meeting! Beth loves to go to this meeting, mostly because of the nice breakfast buffet but she also gets to shake hands with lots of people who know her now. She also stands up and waves at everyone when they introduce her -- she likes being in the spotlight for a minute or two.

After that, Beth and Tom went to the shop and to the post office and running errands. Later, we went to dinner at a Mexican restaurant. Beth had a pork and bean burrito and she loved it! Ate every bit. We called Mike when we got home, wanted to let him know that Beth would now be coming home on Monday instead of Saturday -- she now is on a direct flight instead of one with a layover.

Now it's Saturday morning -- We found a MayDay basket on our front door, a gift from Patsy -- what fun!

Beth had waffles and fruit for breakfast, yummy she said. We may go shopping, maybe go to the Brookside Art Fair. Lily has a baseball game this afternoon, unless it rains.

More to come!

Beth and Scot

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Wow! Another week gone by --

From 2010-04 Beth's April Visit

This month is just zooming by!

I'll try to get us caught up --

On Sunday, April 18 -- we started with breakfast at home, then we went to a dance recital where Poppy and Lily were performing. After that, it was back home to get ready for the family dinner at our house. We were celebrating Pam's birthday, so Nancy made a French chocolate cake for the dessert.

Everybody came over for the dinner -- Italian chicken, veggies, pasta, bread and Ceasar salad. The babies are nearly walking now, it's such fun. After dinner, Pam opened her presents and we all sang happy birthday to her.

Monday was back to work! Nancy was very busy, so Beth spent the day with Tom at home, at the bookstore, and going to Curves. We had a light dinner and then we all went to a lecture on Mark Twain at a local college. Truth be told, it was a boring lecture, but Beth was occupied writing lists of her favorite musicians and songs.

Tuesday was another full day for Nancy -- all day at work, then home for a nice dinner with Bethie. She had Curves again and enjoyed the great day outside alot.

Wednesday -- guess what? Busy again. In the evening, we all went to see the kids perform in their church choir. That was sweet. Then home for a late dinner, outside. We saw the bat!

Thursday: Nancy was out much of the day, so again Beth was with Tom. Leftovers for lunch. Then in the afternoon, Tom and Beth went to pick up our guest, Kay. She is a visiting student from Taiwan, here on a study exchange program with Rotary. She's 25 years old, and wants to work in marketing and public relations. She's bright and quick to laugh, and we loved her immediately.

Tom, Beth and Kay had some wine while waiting for Nancy to get home; then we all went out to dinner at Aixois to get to know each other better. We also saw John Donnelly and Bill Byrne there, Beth chatted with them a bit.



Friday, June 23 -- the day started with Rotary, for Nancy, Beth and Kay. It was really fun, with all five of the Taiwanese girls. Our guest for the morning meeting was Kansas City's "Eco-Elvis," an outrageous performer with Elvis-songs converted to Earth-friendly messages. It was really fun!

Nancy was running errands all morning (my computer broke, lost several hours of work time and generated some anxiety before it got fixed). In the afternoon, Beth and Tom went to visit Andrea; it was her monthly open house with music and dancing and a food buffet.

Later, we all went to Fogo de Chao for happy hour with the Taiwanese girls. They had a busy day, too, and Kay was ready to come home and relax with us. We had a light dinner outside, then turned in early.

From 2010-04 Beth's April Visit

Today is Saturday. Tom and Beth went to Graham's baseball game, Nancy took Kay to meet up with her team. When Beth got back from baseball, she went to work peeling apples for a German apple cake for our dinner tonight. We are all going to a Rotary friend's home, where the Taiwanese girls are cooking for us. Sure home German apple cake will mix well with traditional Taiwanese!

From 2010-04 Beth's April Visit

Saturday, April 17

Oh joy, the weekend!

Beth once again got up early and started packing to go home. She's not understanding the calendar or the amount of time she is scheduled to stay here. I am trying to keep it top of mind for her, quizzing her and working with her to count days on the calendar, and to help her understand what day it is.

In the morning, we went to watch Poppy's soccer game, and then we went to run some errands, including getting the cars washed. Beth went with me to get a haircut, always fun! It's a beautiful day.

Beth and I did a little shopping and then went to the grocery store to buy supplies for Sunday's family dinner. We'll be celebrating Pam's birthday.

We spent part of the day outside in the beautiful sunshine and blue skies. Then, Beth helped with dinner -- we had shrimp provencal -- outside. Lovely!

Beth did really well in showering and getting ready for bed -- almost a record in less than a half hour. Then tucked in and warm in her cozy bed, windows open with a fresh breeze.

The April 2010 Vacation

Beth is here again, visiting from Columbus! Yay!

Here's a little summary of her first week:

Friday, April 16: The day started with Beth and Nancy going to the Rotary meeting. Beth just LOVES to go with me to the meeting. It's in a lovely hotel, with a very nice breakfast buffet. Beth gets to wear a name badge, and many people there know her, since she has been three times or so.

We see a lot of friends and there's a lot of fun, along with the good breakfast, too.

After that, it was home. Beth worked on her artwork while I worked from home for a while. I had to go out to a meeting in the afternoon, but after that, Beth and I went shopping. We got a couple of little things for her and then some groceries for dinner.

Back at home, we had dinner together -- sloppy joes, cauliflower and broccoli, and Beth had fresh strawberries and ice cream for dessert. That's about it for today!

Thursday, April 15: Beth and Tom went out in the afternoon to meet Erin, Margo and Simon at the big open farm in town. It's a great place to walk and see the animals and plants, and to play. They fed the goats, who came up and licked the food right out of their hands. They saw chickens and hawks and buffalo and some other animals too. They had cookies and snacks there, too.



After that, we had to run a couple of errands (it was Tax Day) and Nancy had to go back to work. Beth went to Curves for a good workout, and then after dinner that night, we all went for a walk. We heard the frogs peeping and chirping, we saw a duck in the stream, also some fishies, and Nancy found a hawk feather. (Pan liked it.)

Wednesday, April 14: This was a day full of work. Nancy was out most of the day, lots of stuff to get done. Beth went with Tom to the basement at Aixois, where his books are, and she went to Curves for her workout. Nancy had to work late, until about 8 p.m., so Tom and Beth ordered a pizza for dinner.

Tuesday, April 13: We're getting into a routine. Beth has fruit and maybe toast for breakfast, plus yogurt and coffee. She takes a L-o-o-o-n-g time eating breakfast in the morning. I'm trying to discourage her from microwaving her coffee over and over and over again. She's learning.

Tonight, we invited John Donnelly over for dinner for his birthday. We had a really nice dinner with salad, potatoes and a pork roast, and then cake and ice cream and fruit for dessert. We had candles on the cake and even sang to him. Beth made him a birthday card.



Monday, April 12: Beth's first weekday here. Fruit and yogurt for breakfast, and then she worked on her art a bit while Nancy worked. In the afternoon, we visited Curves and got her all set up to come back as much as possible. She had a good workout.

We had dinner at home. It's just beautiful here, a bright and gorgeous spring, with all the trees blooming. Beth had to borrow a pair of shorts to wear! It's that warm!

Sunday, April 11: Today is a big day -- we are going to Brian and Pam's house for the family dinner today, to celebrate Simon's First birthday! Pam's parents are in town from Canada to celebrate too. It was quite an event -- Simon's first taste of cake and ice cream. He approved.

Beth made Simon a nice scroll that said happy birthday and may all your wishes come true, over and over again, with flowers around the edges. Everybody thought it was really nice. With all the kids there, we tossed the rugby ball back and forth in the front yard. Beth did really good. Everybody yelled "butterfingers" when ever anyone dropped the ball! Lots of laughs!

Saturday, April 10: This is the day Beth came to Kansas City! I went out to the airport to meet her. It was another slightly traumatic event.

I was waiting for her at the gate, and waiting and waiting and waiting. Everyone seemed to be off the plane, but no Bethie! Oh no! What do I do, where do I go, who can I call? Then, luckily, I spotted her in the secured area -- she had come off the plane in a wheelchair! She was sitting there patiently, waiting to be escorted out to me! She saw me waving and we both were very excited and happy to see each other! Yay!

When we got home, I made a nice breakfast for her since she only had peanuts and orange juice on the plane, and it was a very long ride! After she got settled in, we went to Poppy's soccer game and watched a little bit of it. Erin was there, and Patsy, too.

After that, we ran some errands and then went home for a nice dinner at home.

So glad Bethie's in Kansas City!

New Year's Day!

Snowy and cold, birds at the window, and we have a video conference with Scott! What fun -- we talk about our New Year's evenings and make plans for 2010.

Last night, we went to Max's house for his New Year's party. Lots of our friends were there, and Beth had a nice time talking with everyone. After that, we stopped by Aixois to see our friends there. It was busy and bustling and warm!

Beth dressed up for the parties. She wore her sequin velvet jacket and looked lovely!

Today, we will have a dinner at home and will help Bethie get all packed and ready for the trip tomorrow morning.

I wanted to mention that we heard from Don and Kathy -- they had sent a lovely Xmas card and a photo of them; it's hanging by Beth's desk with Scott's and her other cards. I sent them the link to this blog and this is what they wrote back to us:

Dear Nancy;

What a nice surprise your blog was, to record Beth's visit and then link it to the Picasa Photo Album!

We really enjoyed seeing your Thanksgiving and Christmas pictures. Seeing you and Tom and Ken and of course the sweet pictures of Beth.

She always looked so happy and delightful in all she was doing. She looks so nice and I am happy she is still doing "Curves". That certainly is keeping her looking so good and healthy.

What a great visit she had with you. It was nice seeing her making cookies and with all your family at the parties.

I'm sure it was great having her there with you.

What an adventure going to the airport. Thank God she had a good flight home and how brave of her to travel alone.

It was good to see you Nancy. You look so much like your Mom.

I love your cat. He or she is really beautiful.

Thank you Nancy for sharing all of your holiday pictures with us.

We wish you and Tom a very Happy New Year.

Love,

Kathy & Don